She (Soper) wrote it almost two years ago. I found it today. This is exactly how I feel:
"Because I am not normal, I cannot just say 'let's make a baby' and make a baby, because no matter how legal it is or what avenue we go down, in reality I will, in some fashion, have to buy a kid. Either buy the technology to make one grow inside me, or inside someone else, or pay some agency or lawyer a ton of fees to take home someone else's child and call it my own.
I don't want to make this decision. I hate that everything in my life has to be filled with so much drama, that I can never do anything the normal way."
Let me add this twist: We have no money.